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204-每个人都是孤独的

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记住,世人皆孤独
Remember That Everyone Is Lonely
不论年龄、出身、收入、地位、相貌、种种差异,地球上的70亿人,每一个人都生而孤独,没有人的朋友圈是固定不变的。
而正因为我们知道世人皆孤独,我们不应该猜测别人不需要朋友,不应该以冷漠和戒备的心态待人,因为每个人都渴望结交聪明、温柔、幽默和有趣的新朋友,当我们发现这个人时,我们应该抛开对错误臆测,为结交新朋友腾出空间。
Remember That Everyone Is Lonely
记住,世人皆孤独。
One of the reasons why we tend not to make friends as often as we might comes down to a powerful background idea whose full destructive force we may not even be aware of: the belief that any decent person already has all the friends they need.
我们不经常交朋友的一个原因,归根结底是受制于一种深深根植在大脑的猜想,我们甚至没有意识到它的破坏力,这个猜想是:任何正经的人都已经有足够的朋友了。
Somewhere in our minds, the notion has been lodged that only very sad and inept people would – at this stage in their lives – still have a space in their social agenda for a new entrant. Almost everyone else – anyone worth knowing, talented, interesting or good – would long ago have acquired the gang to which they are now continually and irredeemably wedded.
在我们的内心世界,这个念头已经深深扎根:只有非常悲催和无能的人,在生命的这个阶段,才会在社交计划中为结交新朋友腾出位置。而几乎所有值得结交、有才华、有趣或善良的人,早就和一群相识相知的人结伴前行,他们已经形成了稳固不变的朋友圈。
【单词短语很简单】
1、lodge
中文释义:
作为名词:小屋,旅馆,集会处。
作为动词:寄宿,提出,嵌入,投宿。
英文释义:
作为名词:a small house or cottage, often for temporary or seasonal use; a local chapter or branch of certain organizations.
作为动词:to provide a place to stay; to become embedded or stuck; to present or submit as a formal statement.
词源: "Lodge" 这个词的词源可以追溯到古法语中的 "logis",意为“住所”或“房屋”。它又来自拉丁语中的 "locus",表示“地方”或“位置”。
例句:
As the sun set, they found a cozy lodge in the mountains for the night.
2、Inept
中文释义: 不称职的,无能的,愚笨的。
英文释义: lacking skill or ability; incompetent; awkward; clumsy.