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153-为什么不要给自己的人生设限？

10 Things Will Happen When You Stop Limiting Yourself

为什么不要给自己的人生设限？

Too often do people limit themselves by not being sure of their success.

人们常常因为不确定自己是否成功而限制自己。

I know many great individuals with huge potential who just don’t try new things because they fear failure, who don’t feel comfortable in their own skin and as a result don’t approach new people or speak up. That’s an awful way to live life. Because — we’re all equally gifted and it’s all a matter of choice and initiative whether we’ll become the best version of ourselves or live an average life. But if you stop limiting yourself, big transformations will start happening in every area of your life right away.​

我认识很多有巨大潜力的优秀人士，他们只是因为害怕失败而不去尝试新事物，他们对自己的皮肤感到不舒服，因此不去接触新的人或表达自己。这种生活方式太糟糕了。因为——我们都有同样的天赋，无论我们会成为最好的自己，还是过着平庸的生活，这都是一个选择和主动的问题。但如果你不再限制自己，你生活的方方面面都会立刻发生巨大的变化。​

Here are the most important transformations you’ll experience once you stop limiting yourself:​

一旦你不再限制自己，你会经历以下最重要的转变:

You’ll have bigger goals.

你会有更大的目标。

People who always think they can’t succeed are scared to dream big. They don’t dare to set big goals and share them with others. And that’s why they never achieve anything better in life. But if you let go of the limitations you set to yourself, you’ll know you can reach anything you dream about. And so can everyone else.​

总是认为自己不能成功的人都不敢有远大的梦想。他们不敢设定大目标并与他人分享。这就是为什么他们在生活中从来没有取得过更好的成就。但是如果你放开你给自己设定的限制，你就会知道你可以实现你的梦想。每个人都可以。​

So define your deepest desires and ideal lifestyle today, believe you can get there. And write down the things you need to do, think of the person you need to become and the changes you’ll need to make to get closer to your goals.​

所以今天就定义你内心深处的渴望和理想的生活方式，相信你能做到。写下你需要做的事情，想想你需要成为什么样的人，想想你需要做出什么样的改变来接近你的目标。​

You’ll improve your skills.

你会提高你的技能。

As a result of believing in yourself and your abilities more, you’ll work on fighting your weaknesses and improving your strengths. You’ll gain knowledge and experience in new areas, may even master a skill after some time. That will change your perspective of life and you’ll aim even higher after that.​

更多地相信自己和自己的能力，你就会努力克服自己的弱点，提高自己的优势。你会在新领域获得知识和经验，甚至可能在一段时间后掌握一项技能。这会改变你对生活的看法，之后你会有更高的目标。​

You’ll overcome shyness.

你会克服害羞的。

Social anxiety can be a result of the lack of self-esteem. But once you stop limiting yourself, there won’t be anything to stop you from communicating with people freely and confidently. A great way to start is by approaching one new person daily, no matter how uncomfortable or scary it may feel. Once you do that, you’ll see it’s nothing impossible. Even if it’s awkward the first few times, you’ll soon feel better around new people and will think of stuff to talk about more easily. 【背诵】​

社交焦虑可能是缺乏自尊的结果。但是一旦你不再限制自己，就没有什么能阻止你自由自信地与人交流。一个很好的开始方式是每天接触一个新的人，不管感觉有多不舒服或害怕。一旦你这样做了，你就会发现没有什么是不可能的。即使刚开始的几次会很尴尬，但你很快就会在新朋友面前感觉更好，也会更容易想到可以谈论的话题。​

You’ll get things done.

你会把事情做好的。

Limiting yourself also ruins your productivity. But once you let go of that, you’ll actually get to work more often and will be more focused (instead of procrastinating, thinking you’ll fail, or having doubts). The results will be great too and soon other people will start noticing it.​

限制自己也会破坏你的效率。但是一旦你放下这些，你就会更频繁地工作，也会更专注(而不是拖延，认为你会失败，或者怀疑)。结果也会很好，很快其他人就会开始注意到它。​

You’ll be present.

153-为什么不要给自己的人生设限？​

153-为什么不要给自己的人生设限？